Friday 27 February 2009

Fisting?


- Do you do fisting? – A client asked yesterday night?
- Even if I am the one wanting to be fisted?
- No.
He then rang the phone without even saying ‘thanks’.
I know, I know, I probably should be a little more open minded sometimes because one of the reasons of hiring an escort is exactly that: to be able to realize a few fantasies which your partner may would not be that pleased to get into.
However there are a few things that I find hard to do and shoving my hand (and arm) down in someone’s butt whole is not my idea of fun at all.

What is the point of such a painful sexual fetishe?

9 comments:

Anonymous said...

I think you are right - there are things one/you want to do and other you don't ... and even if one would, it might not be good. Good to say honestly no in those cases!

Miss Ginger Grant said...

Stick to your guns, honey! It seems like right now you have a very classy clientele! If word got out that you were doing all that "dark" stuff, you would start getting calls for all sorts of weird stuff! Keep yourself on the "high end"!

YvesPaul said...

I'd say charge him double... lol

RAD said...

Giddy up!

Mistress Maddie said...

I agree with Miss G. I'm glad you keep it high end there. I never understood fisting. Who the hell wants to have a asshole that so loose it's like rolling a bowling ball down the ally. When you have anal sex with someone it is nice to feel the tightness there. And I could never be fisted that's for damn sure. I cut it off at the guys that are hung!

Anonymous said...

I think fisting is kind of a humiliation thing and some people get off on that. I can't see how the actual act would be enjoyable at all, but maybe the violation that the act symbolizes is the turn on.

But I agree with the others here, you have to have your limits as a professional so you don't tarnish your brand.

MadeInScotland said...

I just billed a client this month to for work I didn't feel personally happy about aspects of.

The point is, I'm afraid, client is king.

But where is affects you is that you can define your services. So, be clear, define them. Otherwise, my friend, the fault is yours.

Be crystal about the service you provide, and that which you do not.

ahoj

TED said...

I've fisted guys before, and it's really not that big a deal. They like it because of the extreme prostate stimulation, I think. In any case, guys who are into that tend to shoot pretty quickly after you close your fist inside them, and they say it really isn't very painful for them. Wear a latex glove and use a lot of vegetable shortening.

And, yes, you can surely charge a premium for that sort of service.

Social Disaster said...

lol...I just know it is't my thing.