When 3 can be good!

Loved this e-mail and decided to share with you guys:

'i came across your blog and find it amazing, and i see you are posting recently as well. i was hoping you could give a little advice. i'm 34yo living in US and ive been in a relationship with a wonderful guy but my imagination is much wilder than my actions. sex with him is great but very vanilla.

after reading your blog quite a long while, it made me wonder if i should rent someone to help me act out some fantasies. i searched online and found several extremely attractive escorts near me. i'd be looking for someone who would handcuff, tie, maybe blindfold me, and use me roughly (licking, sucking, taking his cock).what would u recommend in my case? pursue it with my bf? look into "renting"? just keep it as a private jerk-off fantasy?keep up the great work on your blog, i will be coming back to read more about your exploits.

j'.

Hi J,
Thanks for dropping by and for the lovely e-mail.
I asked you permission to post my answer because I get asked similar questions quite often so I thought I could be of more help sharing it with more people.

I am not very good in just keep things as a fantasy.

Life is too short and, until proven contrary, we just live once. So having said that I think you should rent and share an escort with your BF.
Maybe, by watching a professional, he will get some inspiration and ideas for both of you!.

I think also it is good for him to see what turn you on nowadays.

People change every single day (actually people change right now as you read my blog) so it doesn’t come as any surprise that after 6 years you feel like exploring new sensations. Why not?

Be very careful about who you rent for those sort of service.

If you BF get excited and also decides to try the same ‘especial’ treatment (handcuff, tie, maybe blindfold) take it in turns to avoid giving too much power to the escort.

Ideally you should try him first and then, on a second visit, have something more extreme to make sure who you are dealing with.

But risk some good moments.

I’ve noticed that couples get more liberal and open minded when they have something like a threesome or bondage time to time.

If you manage to convince your long term partner, initially it will work as sorting out a fantasy but you will notice that your boyfriend will feel less shy to try more edgier things in bed.
Have a fucking-tastic day!