No matter how much the media and books talk about, people still put themselves in risk!
Since I was very little that everyone talks about AIDS and so many other diseases.
However since I started working within the sex industry I had so many offers to do bareback that I just lost the track and stopped counting them after the 20th client.
I find ridiculously rude to get offered more money for unprotected sex, also because if someone attempt to do it, certainly it is a common practise for then!.
Besides that, by offering money to a male worker performs sex without a condom you are clearly saying that you really believe that he is stupid or already positive, and both assumptions are not nice at all.
A client yesterday, whom I’ve never met before until we get together at his hotel, asked me for a bareback even before I take my clothes off.
- I have my tests done regularly, I am clean! – He guaranteed as sure as a state agent selling a house. And in both cases, clients and people selling houses, you know that they are lying to get away.
- Good for you.
- It is true, believe me! – the client insisted raising the money offer, what is always tempting, I must say..
- I didn’t say it wasn’t true, but I don’t do bareback, I am sorry. Also, how would you know that I am clean, then?
- Escorts are more careful with sex than the average gay guy. I don’t know a lot of them actually offering this extra service. . .
- That is true. Probably because it is not a service: it is an unnecessary risk, I am afraid.
- Good for you.
- It is true, believe me! – the client insisted raising the money offer, what is always tempting, I must say..
- I didn’t say it wasn’t true, but I don’t do bareback, I am sorry. Also, how would you know that I am clean, then?
- Escorts are more careful with sex than the average gay guy. I don’t know a lot of them actually offering this extra service. . .
- That is true. Probably because it is not a service: it is an unnecessary risk, I am afraid.
He wasn’t terribly happy to have his offer turned down and after 45 minutes fucking, with condom of course, he said I wasn’t as good as he was expecting me to be.
Given the fact I am Latin and young he was expecting much more action!
More action?
I suppose he said that because the issue we had at the beginning. The true is: after trying so many different positions in bed and also tried a chair in the bedroom, I am sure that on top of that the only thing left was to be able to fly! – but I cannot fly!
It was a relief to finish with that guy, although I had worst clients to date, it is always so tiring to have people putting you off! I never get used to those ones!
After the hotel I bought a big chocolate bar – this is my secret to get back the energy spent working in bed and to be ready to the next round of sex: I eat chocolate!
Luckily the next client, within a couple of hours, would be Mr. Preston, a rather than nice guy living in a tiny studio, just off Battersea.
Last time I went there, we had a neighbour knocking the door to complain about the noise!
(To be continued)
(To be continued)
4 comments:
I'm glad you turned down the offer... As enticing as it was... nothing is worth the risk... great blog... thanks for stopping by mine...
Love from Atlanta
(SYN)
Good for you. Sometimes people lose touch for the reasons they get into their line of work and take unnessary risks that are harmful to their career and their lives even. I respect your decision.
I just found your blog via Cortez in WDC. I loved this post.
On the 17th of Dec. I discussed this very topic on my blog F6, Queer Views Of Life Along Our Three Rivers. I hope you dont mind but I just now also linked to this post as an update to my original, which you can visit here: http://frfozybearftwin.blogspot.com/2008/12/calendar-did-you-hug-your-whore-today.html, if you are so inclined.
Also that pic at the header of the post was amazing do you know who took the original print? You are beautiful as well, and I loved reading your insight and stories.
Peace,
+Kenneth
Good for you turning down the offer. And the noise? My...what were you two doing? Happy Holidays to you!
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